I hear dating gurus say this all the time. They tell you to
not use lines or routines because what will happen if you run out of them?
Well… let me tell you this… Each routine and line you use
displays who you are or what type of person you are. The more you use a certain
line or routine, the more you become that person.
There’s a line I use a lot, it goes something like this:
“Let’s go outside.” “Let’s go get a drink.” “Let’s go ______” fill in the
blank.
You should note that only a leading and decisive person
would say things like that.
At first I was not a decisive or leading person. I was
always a follower and always let others do the leading. But the moment I
started using that line and continued using it on girls, I started to become a
decisive person. I started to lead people. Next thing I know, friends and families
started asking me “what should we do today?”
Most say if you use lines and routines, it's not who you
really are and you’re not being genuine. Although that may be true at first but
the more you use lines and routines, the more you’ll start to become that
person.
And pretty soon you’ll understand the concepts of those
lines and routines and “naturally” start developing your own lines and routines
(on the same concept) in the field.
